Cue Diana Ross- Im Coming Out
Hi my name is Leeza, Im 25 years old. Ive never come out or felt like I had to about my sexuality or gender, I am ever evolving and never felt like it required an explanation (quite frankly I still don't) I am free, I am agender... Ive been labeling myself under non binary for the last 4 years I think to make it easier on myself to deal with it and others but the truth is I've never felt like the gender binary existed in me. I am pansexual, I am sexually attracted to whoever the fuck I want that reciprocates what I do. I find love in everything and everyone that gives me time to get to know them and vice versa. I don’t care about your perception of me, my self is fluid. Call me Leeza, azeel, king, sir, sis, queen, they, them. It is as fluid to me as everything else. We are all our own balance of our feminine and masculine energies. Respect how people identify themselves, respect everyone, and firstly respect yourself..
I have felt like my gender expression has always evolved, but my identity has never revolved around my gender. I have always felt the need to express myself through whatever I had access to. My identity has always been about my expression and my experience, not forced societal concepts on what and who I should be.
We aren't meant to fit into labels and boxes made up of others perceptions. The only perception of you that matters is your own.
My sexuality is fluid, my gender is unimportant to me and therefore should be to you as well. Do not sexualize me, only I can do that. It really doesn’t make sense to judge… just cause I got big titties doesn’t mean anything other than it is a fact I got big titties inherited from the moms and that’s that ok just cause I wear a tank with no bra doesn’t mean I want to be perceived for your own twisted version of me.. y’all try wearing a bra for no reason but to make others more comfortable!
Basically, let’s just stop perceiving okay? don’t perceive me. I and you and we do not exist and yet we are all here together, let’s not perceive each other but love instead xx been missing so much love and lovers in my life but I have been filling it with my own and finding new and beautiful things to learn from and love. Watching my plants grow, vacuuming every corner of my room daily, remembering to write down my thoughts, reminding myself that it is okay to be where I am and who I am at this present time.. It is okay to love yourself at every stage in your life.